Kindness: The Secret to a Happier Life
We all know that it’s good to be kind to others. Kindness is an important virtue for sustaining relationships, which helps to build a trusting and cooperative society.
You may have also heard that kindness makes you happier and healthier. A recently published review of decades of kindness research agree that being who are kind tend to have higher well-being.
For example, in the UK, researchers found that being kind could boost happiness in as little as three days. The study assigned people to three groups: the first group had to do an act of kindness each day; the second tried a new activity and the third did nothing. Those who were kind and did new things saw a significant boost in happiness.
You’ll experience even greater joy if you’re creative with your acts of kindness. Happiness researchers Sonja Lyubomirsky and Kennon Sheldon found that people who did a variety of acts of kindness throughout the week showed greater increases in happiness than those who performed the same activity over and over again.
And here’s the good news: It seems acts of kindness can be anonymous or visible, spontaneous or planned, and can be as simple as giving a compliment or opening a door for someone.
Kindness Suggestions
There are literally hundreds of ideas on the internet on how to practice kindness, but here are a few to get you started:
- Smile at someone and say hello.
- Write a letter or send a care package to a friend or family member who lives far away.
- Listen attentively to someone who needs to talk.
- Leave a generous tip for your server at a restaurant.
- Share a funny or heartwarming story with someone who could use a pick-me-up.
- Leave a positive note or message for someone to find.
- Send a thank-you card or message to someone who has made a difference in your life.
- For more ideas, The Random Acts of Kindness Foundation also has lists of kindness ideas.